Pattie Boyd to tell all in new book details here.

According to the Daily Mail, one of rock and roll’s untold stories will surface next year. I mean it is not often that a true muse shares untold stories after a 40-year old self imposed silence. It looks like the books deals more with Pattie’s marriage to Eric Clapton, but I’m sure it’s filled with previously untold details of all things Beatle.  (The John tidbits in the article sounded fascinating.  I never knew.)  The books looks to be a shocker, and it also looks that few mentioned in it will be seen in a particularly rosy light.  But it sounds better the E.C.’s upcoming autobiography.

Pattie and George

She has been silent for 40 years. Now tempted by a £1m pay cheque, the world’s most famous rock chick is set to reveal every detail of her abusive marriage to Eric Clapton.

Amid the amphitheatrical splendour of Verona’s Roman arena, Eric Clapton was not a happy man. On stage in front of 15,000 adoring fans at the lavish open-air venue this week, he was plagued by the draining summer heat and a particularly persistent mosquito.

“As he’s become older he gets miserable when it’s too hot,” says a member of the 61-year-old rock star’s entourage. “He was bothered by the flies and his glasses kept steaming up.” Clapton’s misery as he performed his classics Layla and Wonderful Tonight might also have been due, in part at least, to the woman about whom he wrote his two most famous love songs.

Holed up in her 17th-century cottage in the West Sussex countryside, Pattie Boyd, Clapton’s ex-wife and the woman he stole from Beatle George Harrison, is working feverishly on her autobiography.

The book, which will see Boyd finally break her 40-year self-imposed silence over her marriages to two of the biggest music stars of the 20th century, was described to the Mail by a publishing source this week as ‘full and frank’.

In other words, in exchange for her rumoured £950,000 advance, ex-model Pattie will be expected to dish the dirt about the sex, drugs and infidelities in her relationships with both the legends.

And to use the vernacular, 62-year-old Boyd certainly knows where the bodies are buried. Worse still for Clapton, her tome will go head-to-head in a sales war with his own forthcoming (and, it is rumoured, highly sanitised) £3.5 million life story. No wonder the guitar king is feeling the heat.

Pattie’s account of her life with Clapton is sure to tarnish his image as one of rock’s gentlemen. Particularly as, the Mail has learnt, she intends to lay bare the bizarre details of how the singer agreed to swop his own girlfriend for Pattie as a trade-off with George Harrison.

She is also said to be planning to tell the full story about dark rumours that during their nine-year marriage, Clapton, battling an addiction to drink and drugs, was an abusive and violent husband who cheated on her with a string of women because she couldn’t bear him children.

None of which is likely to make comfortable reading for the star — nicknamed Slowhand because of the speed of his hands on the guitar — who has become a father to three young daughters late in life thanks to his happy, five-year marriage to American-born former waitress Melia McEnery, 32 years his junior.

To compound his problems, Pattie’s memoirs come at the same time that another lover, Italian Lori Del Santo, whose four-year-old son with Clapton, Conor, died when he fell from a New York skyscraper, is penning her own version of events, which will allege that Clapton dispatched an aide to persuade her to have an abortion when he discovered she was pregnant.

Hardly surprising, then, that the veteran rocker, who is already worth £130 million, is said by associates to be rueing his decision to accept the payday offered by publishers Random House for his musings on his life and hugely successful career.

“He realises he has opened a can of worms with Pattie and Lori,” a source close to him told the Mail this week. “He is not too concerned about Lori, but he never thought Pattie would reveal the secrets of their marriage.

“He comes out of it pretty badly, but the truth is he should have let sleeping dogs lie and never agreed to do this book. He knows he’s only got himself to blame.” Indeed, friends of Pattie reveal she decided to sign her own publishing deal with Headline Books only because she was angry that Clapton had broken his vow not to speak about their marriage. Already, she has employed Prince Charles’s biographer Penny Junor to help her write it.

Meanwhile Clapton’s publishers are said to be furious over the news that Pattie’s book will go directly up against his own when they both hit the shelves in the autumn of next year. As one who has been researching their lives for several years for my own book on Clapton, I can say without hesitation that Pattie’s is one of rock’s great untold stories. Not only was she the muse for Clapton’s finest work, she inspired first husband George Harrison to pen the beautiful Something for her.

The public school-educated daughter of an RAF pilot, Pattie was a 20-year-old model when she was chosen to make a fleeting appearance in the 1964 Beatles film A Hard Day’s Night. The well-bred trophy girl caught the eye of bus driver’s son Harrison and the couple married in 1966. It was the blonde and toothy Pattie who spawned Harrison’s interest in eastern culture and introduced The Beatles to the Indian mystic the Maharishi Mahesh Yogi in 1968.

But it is her description of her relationship with another Beatle, John Lennon, that will be most fascinating. Rumours abound among those who surrounded the group that Lennon and Pattie enjoyed a brief fling during her marriage to George.

What is certainly true is that Lennon shared with his friend Mick Jagger a sexual obsession with Pattie, which he documented in a series of graphic diary entries.

Indeed, the blatant flirting between John and Pattie at a party at London’s Royal Lancaster Hotel in December 1968 led to singer Lulu stepping in to remonstrate on behalf of Lennon’s long-suffering wife Cynthia. Not that Harrison, despite his conversion to mysticism, was above the more earthly pleasures himself.

He enjoyed an affair with Ringo Starr’s wife Maureen Starkey during their marriage and his bed became familiar to a rotating band of groupies known as the ‘Apple Scruffs’ because they would hang around outside the group’s Apple Corps headquarters on London’s Savile Row.

But it was Pattie’s relationship with Clapton that was to wreck her marriage to George. She and Harrison met the guitarist, then with Sixties supergroup Cream, at a party in Chelsea in November 1968.

The two men became immediate best friends, but Clapton, who was living with his teenage girlfriend Alice Ormsby-Gore, the daughter of Lord Harlech, fell passionately for the lovely Pattie.

When she rejected his entreaties for her to leave Harrison for him, he wrote the tortured love song Layla for her. Eventually, as George became more and more obsessed with the teachings of his new spiritual guru, Pattie fell into Eric’s arms. They continued their affair behind George’s back, even disappearing for trysts in an upstairs cupboard during candlelit games of hide and seek with an unsuspecting George at his huge Gothic mansion, Friar Park in Henley-on-Thames, Oxfordshire.

It was not Pattie’s first affair either. In the early Seventies, Harrison and guitarist Ronnie Wood, who would go on to join the Rolling Stones, negotiated a wife swop, with Pattie escorting Wood on holiday to the Bahamas while George took Ronnie’s then wife Krissy to his rented villa in Portugal.

Harrison finally twigged that Clapton had ‘done it’ with his wife when he arrived at a party at the home of his then manager Robert Stigwood in Stanmore, Middlesex, to see his best friend and Pattie acting like husband and wife. Clapton, who by then was living with model Cathy James, confessed his affair with Pattie to George and told him bluntly that he wanted her for himself. Harrison’s reaction was unexpected. He told Clapton: “Whatever you like, man.” Then added: “You can have her and I’ll have your girlfriend.”

Pattie fled in tears, but finally in 1974 she left George and moved into Clapton’s Italian-style villa Hurtwood Edge in the Surrey stockbroker belt. Astonishingly, the two men remained great friends.

But Clapton’s drinking and drug taking — not to mention his constant philandering — was soon taking its toll on his relationship with Pattie. By the time of their 1979 wedding in Tucson, Arizona, the guitarist was in the midst of a monumental addiction to cocaine. Just days before he asked her to marry him, he had begun a fling under Pattie’s nose with one of her best friends. She constantly forgave his affairs and his drinking sessions, which would start at 8am and last all day. But in 1982 she persuaded the star to check into the Hazelden Foundation drying-out clinic in Minnesota.

Part of his therapy was to read out a questionnaire filled out by Pattie which chronicled the abuse she suffered at his hands while he was in the grip of his addictions. Clapton was forced to admit to his fellow patients that he had beaten her up and forced her to have sex with him.

His behaviour led Pattie into her own battle with the bottle. Hardly surprising, then, that to this day she prefers to forget another song he wrote about her called The Shape You’re In, which chronicles her own alcoholism.

But it was Pattie’s inability to have children that proved the death knell for their marriage. Like Harrison before him, Clapton was keen to start a family, but despite fertility treatment she suffered a series of miscarriages. Meanwhile, Clapton began an affair with studio sound assistant Yvonne Kelly while recording in Montserrat in 1985, and she gave birth to his daughter Ruth.

Pattie was kept in the dark about the baby. But when beautiful television presenter Lori Del Santo, with whom he had begun a tempestuous affair, presented Clapton with a son, Conor, a year later, Pattie moved out. Clapton gave up drink for good, but the couple eventually divorced in 1988.

Pattie has consistently refused big money offers to tell her story about her relationships with the two rock stars, and remained on good terms with George until his death from cancer in 2001. Likewise, she stayed in touch with Clapton after their divorce and even attended the funeral of Conor in 1991.

But friends say she has never fully recovered from his treachery and went into psychotherapy in a bid to come to terms with the collapse of their marriage.

Nor, they say, was she ‘made for life’ by their divorce settlement and is wont to tell friends, who ask her how it feels to have been the inspiration for some of the most touching love songs of all time, that she would have preferred the royalties.

(More…ohh so much more.)
Source: UK Daily Mail

23 Responses to “Pattie Boyd to tell all in new book details here.”

  1. Go girl! And to think I spent my teenage years being so so jealous of Pattie… The more I have read about her over the years, the more I’ve grown to realise how shabbily she was treated by these men. She seems to be a genuinely lovely person who should have been cherished by them. I really hope she’s happy now.

  2. This all happened a very long time ago. Pattie had affairs behind George’s back. George had a gazillion affairs behind her back. Clapton was on drugs and only God knows how many women he had back then.
    The point is - its over. It happened in another time and world.
    Why dig up the mess now?
    Obviously, Pattie was not as precious as we all think! Was anyone during that era? Are we all still being judged for the mistakes in youth?
    Its all about money!
    This is cruel and disgusting.
    George is dead - let him rest in peace. He has left a son and a wife. Do they now have to be humiliated by the ravings of a poor ex-wife who needs money?
    Eric has settled down, remained sober, has three tiny girls - well 4 if you count his young wife. Let it be!
    Stop the madness!
    She should have gone to the bank and asked for a loan!
    Let he who is without sin cast the first stone.
    Words to live by now….

  3. i admire pattie boyd she as kept silent all these years not like the last beatles wife heather mucca so go for it pattie you are a lady who had a raw deal i will buy it and good luck to you you deserve it

  4. Why the big fuzz? Clapton himself have said in interviews, that he was abusive and the story about him and George talking about switching girlfriends is mentioned in Clapton’s official biography written by Ray Coleman.
    All of the shocking “news” from above is widely known.

  5. As a girl, I was aware of the many trysts the Beatles had and the goings on of the wife swaping, drugs, etc. that was how that era was…it started with the information I heard of JFK with Marily and his wifes friends. I’m not making any excuses but this loose behavior was the norm. (It still seems that way now with celebs even though now you can die from having unprotected sex!) I have never looked through rose colored glasses where men are concerned and I’m sure other women haven’t either, asit comes with the territory of trying to have a good relationship, unfortunately. It doesn’t feel great to be betrayed but I’ve never been one of those women who allow it…I just move on, except for my marriage which hasn’t been perfect….I think all men have roving eyes. It sucks but that is how life is. As far as kissing and telling, I think some things need to be told and it may be something Pattie feels she needs to do for herself, now.
    I’ll read it, even though I adore George Harrison (and will continue to….he was only human) no matter what she writes. We pretty much have heard from others about what he did in his life except for his current wife Olivia, of which I’m sure he cheated on too. As a person who knows celebs personally, myself…the reason they are loose is that they can be and have the means to do so….they have the woman around all the time tempting them. This sort of thing will never change and men will always be drawn to having a stable wife but always wanting a slut on the side. Pattie is a beautiful woman and probably stayed with George and Eric because they were so desirable, famous and sexy. If I had George who knows what I would have done in that situation…I would have probably been just like Pattie and put up with all the philandering in order to have him anyway.
    By Georges love songs to both Pattie & Olivia (Something, I’d Have You Anytime,Beautiful Girl, etc.) he did love them in his own way and did appreciate them. Obviously George and Eric was worth the problems…for a while anyway. They are both sexy and charismatic men. I never judge anyone until I walk in their shoes. I have always thought Pattie had beauty and charisma of her own and people will always be facinated by her. and I feel she has paid her dues and finally has a right to tell her side of the story. And as far as Jackie Onassis, she chose never to tell but to keep silent and drink behind closed doors..which I believe ultimately led to her premature death from cancer. I don’t believe in always holding everything in, no matter who you are. It will untimately make you physically and mentally ill.

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  7. Oh, the liberal female/metrosexual crybabies will siddle up to Pattie but men will not only understand but high five George and Eric etc

  8. hey, it was the 60s and 70s. of course there were wife swaps and drug addicts and blah blah blah. Pattie’s cool but you know man, this is a little pointless. everyone knows about everything that happened already. you don’t need to re-hash it over and over. and i say, at least she had their love. i’d also like to say, george was totally cool, cooler than clapton, and i’m glad he treated her better than clapton did, otherwise i might lose a lot of respect for him

  9. Patti just wants to cash in on her ex husbands fame. Clapton is painfully modest about what he reveals in his personal life and nothing she tells (thats true anyway) could really be new

  10. Ziggy is completely right. Clapton himself have in several interviews stated that he treated Patti Boyd awful, but they were still friends a long time after their marriage broke up.
    She will tell her story, and that’s fine, but I doubt any shocking news will come out about the relationship with Clapton.

  11. When I was 14 all I wanted to be was Pattie Boyd, I loved her look and would spend hours in front of the mirror with my 16 magazine, She did a series of how to get her look but of course I could have stayed in that bathroom all day and there was NO WAY I would ever get her look. Seeing her always brings back fond memories for me. Sorry to hear what a hard time she had. It must be hard to see thousands of adoring fans worship these men that have treated her so badly. I guess she will have the last laugh after all, she deserves it.

  12. Remember, you can’t believe everything you read. While there may be much truth in this article, it is baffling and disheartening how someone — a “journalist” no less — who reports that he’s “researching their lives for several years for my own book on Clapton” can propagate several abundantly exposed urban legends. Two for-instances: Clapton was nicknamed Slowhand back in his Yardbird days when someone noted how long (slow) it took him to re-string his guitar, not the more clever ironic revision that it derives from his deft and speedy playing; and Something, as George reported, ad nauseam, was not written for Pattie, or anyone else in particular.

  13. Can you please tell me the name of Patty Boyd’s tell all book?

  14. Pattie Boyd is a part of rock-n-roll history. I have been WAITING for her to fess up forever. History needs to be told, period! Everyone wants money, stockbrokers, bankers, Hollywood and rock star wives. She has every right to publish her memoirs, no matter what the reason. She doesn’t need one. She seemed/seems so lovely and I’m sure all she has now are “friends” (maybe) from those 2 marriages. I KNOW she doesn’t have their money. Her only sin was being infertile. I am too. Men think you’re (sometimes!!) not worthy. It just tarnishes you is all I’m saying. I think it’s courageous and admirable that she’s doing it. Swapping girlfriends/wives????!!! What? I hope she hangs them both out to dry and gets well paid for it. There’s no excuse for BAD man behavior. I’m on my way to the bookstore. To Tracy: the name of the book is “Wonderful Tonight.”

  15. Frances seems a bit out of touch with how people should treat other people in life . . . . .
    Had this gentleman treated Ms. Boyd with respect and dignity, before and after their relationships, this book might not have reflected any negativity towards them. I’d say that according to what was written here, Ms Boyd deserved better.
    Granted there is sorrow in the world for George’s passing . . . And there’s the good news that Eric is cleaned up and moving in a most positive direction . . . . But the deeds that are documented here
    in this book, “WONDERFUL TONIGHT”, the title of a love song written for Patti by Eric, are inexcusable and with any deep and dark secrets . . . At some point, they have to be acknowledged and dealt with on some level whether it be stated in a book or confronted behind closed doors . . . . . .

    In this case . . . . .
    I personally feel for Ms. Boyd and would hope that with the completion of this book, she has had some closure in her life with
    What I would call a hard life . . . . . I hope she finds some joy and happiness for the rest of her life.

  16. Poor us! Poor Pattie! Poor George and Eric and all the victims of the intrepid “revolution” of the 60’s and 70’s sex and drug era!! Hey, who didn’t want to look like Patti when they were 14 and battling their mothers and the nuns ( 12 years Catholic school, folks!) over black eyeliner that looked like crap on us. Go ahead, Pattie, and sell, sell, sell. We all have our histories in that lovely but blighted generation…your’s just happens to be famous. I still listen to that old sweet music and mourn my youth; but I also applaud the wisdom of age now. I hope you do too.

  17. Jody LeGro rocks!

  18. What I get from all of this (in a nutshell) is: very wealthy men (since as far back in history as has been recorded) have many wives (or girlfriends) all at the same time. It’s what extreme wealth does to men.

    As for women who want these kinds of men: is living in a castle with a man who sleeps around (or is abusive) worth the castle? Truth be told, it’s just an elaborate roof over ones head (big deal). Maybe women should be content to be with men who work very hard for their money & come home with a very modest paycheck & have a very modest house & treat you very well.

    Since life is short & no one can hang onto wealth anyway, why strive for it? And striving for it through someone else is perhaps not in a woman’s best interest.

    Knowing about this life of Patti Boyd’s & the lessons it teaches may be good for women who think that getting involved with a “star” is a fairy-tale life (even Princess Diana taught us that it is not).

  19. I also loved and wanted to be Pattie Boyd in the 60’s when she stole George’s heart. I never realized the pain she suffered and can relate to her as a real lady who made a life for herself after the breakup of her former lives with two great musicians who did not treat her with the dignity she deserved.

  20. I’ve just started reading Patti’s book and its addictive, I can’t put it down. I, too, spent my teen years wishing to be Patti. Has she ever taken a bad photo? She was so beautiful and so connected. She lived in the rarified air of the rock n’ roll 60’s. She married a Beatle! Thank you, Patti, for giving us a look at your life. After all she has been through, she still seems a classy, elegant woman.

  21. I’m reading both Clapton’s and Pattie’s autobiographies now. On the one hand, I have great admiration for Eric Clapton. However, I am saddened to learn that he used up Pattie and left her with very little financial assistance. I agree with her - some of the royalties from the songs she inspired in the form of a fair financial settlement at the end of her marriage to Clapton would have been fair - actions speak louder than words. As a woman left in similar circumstances, I support Pattie’s decision to write the book and collect the financial benefits! Pattie, you seem like a lovely lady, inside and out. You are inspiring - that’s why you had such wonderful songs written about you!

  22. Go Pattie Go!!! Take the money and run!!!

  23. viva la pattie

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